We live in a vastly changing world. Every day there are new developments and new reasons to "improve" your life.
When my generation was coming up things were nothing like they are now. You only have to look at the structure of today's family to see the changes.
It seems like everything is against the families of today.
Everything that the world has to offer, at least.
There are so many things out there today that spell **doom** for couples. More reasons to leave than reasons to stay as our society of **do whatever makes you feel good** has taken hold of every aspect of our culture.
Nothing is wrong anymore. Nothing seems taboo.
There is no order.
And where you take away order, chaos reigns.
I have seen it happening everywhere and it is not bound by race, creed, or education.
It is as if the tablecloth has been ripped off the table of our lives, removing that barrier that separates us from the spills of the veritable feast for our senses that is spread out before us.
It is as if that moral barrier is removed.
And when that barrier is gone, it's "Katie, bar the door!" We are FREE to do whatever we choose, with no thought to the consequences of our actions.
Because I assure you, there are consequences.
We have men that are unwilling to be the men that they need to be for there families. And this is not a popular belief in our **Every one's Gone Wild** society, but I believe God's Word, and I believe there is a place a man should be in.
Just as I believe there is a place for women in the marriage relationship. And if either the man or the woman removes themselves from that place, I believe you end up with....
I am quite certain there are people who long ago gave up on reading my humble musing, and have moved on to something that is easier to swallow.
After all, this is America, and we are entitled to voice our opinions, and we are also entitled to reject the opinion of someone else.
It is not important to me.
I have never lived my life longing for public accolades and adoration.
I have striven to live my life to please Him, period.
So, here we are, in the 21st century. Living our lives traveling the information highway. As adults we have everything we think we could ever want available with just a few keystrokes on our computer keyboard.
We can experience anything our heart desires.
And through this vast technology we have the ability to remove every moral barrier that stands between us and the world.
You know my very favorite saying: "Sin will take you farther than you ever wanted to go."
And it is never truer than when you are standing face to face with the stranger you married, suffering the pain of betrayal that comes at the groping hands of today's media, the seduction of this immoral society.
My husband said to me today "I still want to grow old with you. I want to be able to celebrate our 50th anniversary."
I long for that, too.
But, the the odds are against most marriages today surviving to make it 50 years.
And so many people suffer after the very fiber that binds two hearts together is weakened by the decay of our morals.
Through the changes the years have brought to the structure of families it is harder and harder to survive to **Happily Ever After.**
What can I do to protect what God joined together?
Get into the Word. Study, make it part of me.
Pray, get on my knees, cry out to Him and allow Him to work in me, through me and with me.
Protect myself. Do not allow myself to be in a situation where anyone can question me. I need to carry myself at all times in such a way that it is apparent to all that I am a married woman. I would not want someone to have cause to even think anything about me or to dishonor my marriage.
People are always happy to think the worst. And it is the worst that will spread like wildfire. I need to always be mindful of how I carry myself and how my actions can be perceived.
Be real. Be who I say that I am. And examine myself. Allow God to show me areas I need to change. And change.
Because, when it comes right down to it, I want to beat the odds. I want to hold on.
And I know that sometimes that fiber that binds becomes so torn that there is no way to mend it again. For those that have suffered through that, I pray that God will heal their hearts and draw them closer to Him.
Above all else He should be the Love of your life. And when you fall totally in love with Him, when He becomes the center of your joy, He will remove the chaos from your life.
There is power in the blood still to this day. And through that blood all things are possible. And the possibilities are endless.
Even when you think there is no hope, that your heart will never mend, that you will never survive....
Even when all the odds are against you....be of good cheer.
He overcame the odds....
And He is still in the overcoming business.