It will be Father's Day this weekend.
I realize that mothers play a pivotal role in the lives of their children that cannot be duplicated.
So do fathers.
There are things we should learn from our fathers that we can learn from no one else. Things such as work ethic, honesty, firmness and loyalty.
I know plenty of people that have not had that role in their lives and turned out fine, let me say that from the outset. I also know of people who have had wonderful fathers and turned out, well, less than fine.
That is beside the point I want to make today.
Proverbs 22:28 says, "Remove not the ancient landmark, which thy fathers have set."
We use landmarks for directions, especially in the South.
"Turn left by the tree shaped like a Y and look for the house with the big rock in the front yard."
I honestly cannot tell you turn on this street and then on this street. I give directions based on things that I see. That is how I know I am on the right path.
Our children need landmarks in their lives. They need to know they are headed in the right directions or they need a point of reference to get them back on the right track.
They need to see, as fathers that you have set "landmarks" in your lives that will stand the test of time. Not bread crumbs that may be gone as soon as they are spotted by a hungry bird.
They need something they can put their trust in, something they can rely on to always be there, be constant.
I was choosing a picture to represent my Daddy for my facebook profile to honor him for Father's Day. I have several on my profile, but the one I chose was of a day he set a very distinct landmark in his life.
It is the day he was Baptized in the wonderful Name of Jesus for the Remission of his sins and also the day he was filled with the Holy Ghost.
That landmark is solid, built on the Word of God. It will stand the test of time.
My Daddy was an honorable man, he was a strong man, and he was a leader to our family.
But he still had to follow the plan of God. By doing so he was saying, "I have redirected my path. This is the starting point for a new way of life."
And through the Word I know that if he ever lost his way on this new path he could easily find that landmark, a place of repentance.
Did you know, fathers, that everyday you make choices that affect you, AND your children. The way you chose to conduct yourself, to live your life bleeds over into those most precious to you.
Are you on a path that you would want them to follow? If you were gone tomorrow, would the landmarks you have set up in your life be able to stand the test of time?
Thank You today for my earthly father. He was a good man and I am blessed to have been his child. But I also thank You for allowing him to recognize that he WAS a man, and he needed YOU in his life. I am clinging to that promise that as long as I continue to run this race, following the right path, one glorious day I will see Your face. Even so, come Lord Jesus.